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How to Be a Multi-Orgasmic Man (Without Ejaculating) with Matt Sturn

How to Be a Multi-Orgasmic Man (Without Ejaculating) with Matt Sturn | Ep 78

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What if we told you that orgasm and ejaculation aren’t the same thing—and that separating them could supercharge your sex life, your energy, and your confidence?

In this episode, I sit down with Matt Sturn, a somatic therapist and coach for men’s sexuality, who went from five-minute sex to mind-blowing, multi-orgasmic pleasure. And guess what? No ejaculation necessary.

We dive deep into how early porn exposure trained our bodies to rush sex, how men can rewire their arousal systems, and why lasting longer isn’t just about technique—it’s about energy mastery. Matt shares his five-step process to orgasmic control, the daily practice that changed everything for him, and why his partner cried the first time they connected for 45 minutes straight (yes, really!).

We’re not just talking about better sex—we’re talking about showing up more fully as a man, a lover, and a human. If you’ve ever struggled with lasting long enough, felt shame about performance, or wondered if there’s more to sex than a quick finish… this episode will blow your mind (and not your load 😏).

 

About the Guest:

Matt Sturn is a men’s sexuality coach, somatic therapist, and author passionate about helping men rewire their arousal patterns for lasting pleasure, energy, and depth. His work blends trauma-informed techniques with Tantra and self-awareness practices to create profound, body-based transformation in men’s lives.

Website: mattsturm.com
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Timecode:

00:00 Exploring Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms

04:41 Tantra Retreat Transformed Our Relationship

09:13 Decoupling Orgasm from Ejaculation

10:25 Controlling Male Sexual Pleasure

15:55 “Utilizing 5-7 Scale in Relationships”

18:06 “Exploring Relationship Enhancement Benefits”

22:17 Non-Ejaculatory Orgasm Benefits

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