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Within 6 weeks, my chronic pain started to dissipate. I was able to engage in physical activities again. My anxiety was reduced. I was actually on such a rise that I decided to finally start working again. I told Diane i I was physically and mentally incapable of working! It was such a rapid change. I couldn’t believe that my gut and stress levels were to blame for the many symptoms I was suffering for years… Her team truly made me feel cared for and would always follow up and help me stay encouraged on my lifelong path of healing. I am now at a healthy weight, visibly happier and a lot stronger! I could write a book on all they’ve taught me, but instead I’ll say thank you.
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Storie S.
Dr. Mueller’s approach to medicine is refreshing! There is only so much you can do with western medicine and in my life I was needing a new approach. By addressing the whole body, nutritional diet factors, environmental factors, blood work, and incorporating ideas I had not previously known, I was able to break through with my conditions. I am not only experiencing less pain in my life, but through the process of healing guided by Dr. Diane Mueller, I am now happy to say I have more consciousness surrounding how I eat, what to eat and when things are appropriate. Living by example Dr. Mueller has a vibrancy that makes you want to learn and know more about your body and overall health. I highly recommend her to anyone looking for new answers, a new approach to health, or in need of freedom from pain and limitations.
Michaeli Reefe
Within 6 weeks, my chronic pain started to dissipate. I was able to engage in physical activities again. My anxiety was reduced. I was actually on such a rise that I decided to finally start working again. I told Diane i I was physically and mentally incapable of working! It was such a rapid change. I couldn’t believe that my gut and stress levels were to blame for the many symptoms I was suffering for years… Her team truly made me feel cared for and would always follow up and help me stay encouraged on my lifelong path of healing. I am now at a healthy weight, visibly happier and a lot stronger! I could write a book on all they’ve taught me, but instead I’ll say thank you.
Dr. David Allen
As a doctor myself I am very particular about which doctors I work with. I would highly recommend Dr. Mueller She is extremely proficient and goes above and beyond to continually educate herself so she can provide the highest level of care.
Denni David
Dr. Mueller is so committed to helping patients heal and improve quality of life.

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Are you ready to find love again in your 50s? In this video, we're exploring the possibility of falling in love again at 50. Whether you're divorced, widowed, or simply looking for a new connection, this video is for you. We'll dive into the challenges and opportunities that come with finding love later in life, and share inspiring stories of people who have found love again in their 50s. If you're looking for hope, guidance, and inspiration to find love again, then this video is a must-watch. GET EXCLUSIVE CONTENT! Join the Libido Club to hear part 2 and get tips, techniques and so much more! MyLibidoDoc.com/libido-club Listen to Erin's podcast - www.hotterthaneverpod.com. Learn about all of her offerings including her blog and her soon to be released book here: https://hotterthanever.substack.com Erin Keating makes hot stuff for women over forty. She’s the founder of Hotter Than Ever, a company that empowers and lights up the lives of women over forty, and Host of the Hotter Than Ever Podcast. Her company’s mission is to create programming and experiences that liberate women to break the unconscious rules they’ve been following to become freer, happier, sexier, and more satisfied in the second half of their lives. Erin spent 20 years in the media business as a television and mobile content executive, making Emmy and Peabody Award-winning shows for platforms like IFC TV and Snapchat before turning her attention to her own underserved demographic. Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Ready for a Hot and More Modern VErsion of Monogamy? Join the Club: 🌹 MyLibidoDoc.com/Club Timestamps/Chapters: 00:00:00 Introduction 00:06:01 - Renewing Love in Long Term Relationships 00:16:01 -Reinventing Oneself and Reclaiming One's Voice 00:20:32: Intimacy and suffering in one's Life ❣️ Website: mylibidodoc.com ❣️ Join the Libido Club: mylibidodoc.com/club 🌅 Freebies for all things libido: https://mylibidodoc.com/freebies/ 🎧 Podcast: https://mylibidodoc.com/podcasts/
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We've all heard the age-old advice: "Just relax and enjoy the moment." But what if this passive approach to pleasure is holding you back? In our latest episode of Libido Lounge, Celeste and Danielle challenge the status quo by diving into the concept of 'active receiving.' It's not about lying back and hoping for the best. It's about engaging with your own body, exploring what feels good, and actively pursuing pleasure. Celeste shares an eye-opening story about coaching a woman through her first orgasm. "I feel bored," the woman admitted, lying still. Celeste's response? "I'd be bored too!" She demonstrated how active engagement—squeezing muscles, moving legs, making noise—can transform the experience. This isn't just a lesson in pleasure. It's a lesson in life. If we passively wait for good things to happen, we might just miss out on the most fulfilling experiences. So, are you ready to rethink how you receive pleasure?
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You’ve been told to settle. To fake it, smile, and pretend everything’s good in bed—even when it’s not. Enough of that bullshit. Dr. Diane is here with Celeste & Danielle, founders of the Somatica Institute, to teach you how to stop swallowing shame and start owning your goddamn pleasure. Whether you’re feeling numb, insecure, or stuck in your own body, this episode will show you how to break free and start feeling everything you’ve been missing. Real pleasure. Real intimacy. And real power. Want to listen to part two of this episode: Make sure you join us at the Hot and Modern Monogamy Club for exclusive access: MyLibidoDoc.com/Club 🔥 Take their class to get better insight into your turn ons, turn offs and how to communicate with your partner: https://learn.somatica.com/link/nryY5m?url=https%3A%2F%2 About the Guest: Danielle Harel, PhD Dr. Danielle Harel is the co-creator of the Somatica® Method and co-founder of the Somatica Institute. Equal parts sexologist and entrepreneur, Danielle is a force of nature — inspiring and profoundly dedicated to growth and expansion. With a magnetic personality and a passion for life, Danielle’s energy is embodied, earthy, and enveloping. She will steadily and tenaciously invite you to grow and expand, dive deep into your pleasure, and use its transformative and healing powers to your benefit. Her vast knowledge, reflected in her Ph.D. in Human Sexuality, graduate degree in Clinical Social Work, and Bachelor’s in Psychology and Educational Counseling, equips her to guide you with clear and loving instruction. She is a compassionate coach who stands by your side, offering unwavering support as you embark on a journey of transformation. Celeste Hirschman, MA Celeste Hirschman, MA, is the co-founder of the Somatica Institute and a trailblazing expert in the fields of intimacy and personal transformation. She holds a Master’s degree in Human Sexuality Studies and a Bachelor’s degree in Women’s Studies. With a unique blend of insight and compassion, Celeste is dedicated to helping people unlock deeper connections and embrace their authentic selves. Her groundbreaking work with the Somatica® Method has empowered countless individuals to transform their relationships and experience profound personal growth. Timecode: 00:00 "Active Receiving in Intimacy" 05:10 Subconscious Impact of Body Image. 07:16 Overcoming Intimacy Anxiety 09:58 Embodied Living: Daily Mindfulness Practice 16:20 "Redefining Value: Pleasure Over Productivity" 19:40 Lack of Sexual Exploration Impact 20:23 Expanding Pleasure Beyond Penetration 25:03 Embodiment and Body Image Transformation 27:40 Healing and Active Receiving Insights 31:56 Engagement Methods for Healers Explained Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU ❣️ Website: mylibidodoc.com ❣️ Join the Libido Club: mylibidodoc.com/club 🌹 Masterclasses on Libido Topics: mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 🌅 Freebies for all things libido: https://mylibidodoc.com/freebies/ 🎧 Podcast: https://mylibidodoc.com/podcasts/ 👯‍♀️ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ Are you ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and reclaim your libido? If you're seeking support and knowledge to enhance your sexual desire, we invite you to join us for the next empowering Libido Doc Masterclass. Designed specifically for women like you, this masterclass allows you to gain expert guidance and practical strategies for improving your libido. Don't miss out! Register now at mylibidodoc.com/masterclass and take a significant step towards revitalizing your sexual vitality and fulfillment.
Why Shame, Body Image, and Trauma Are Blocking Your Pleasure—And How People Around You Make It Worse
In today's society, the concept of monogamy is often viewed as outdated or restrictive, but could it be the key to building stronger, happier relationships? In this video, we explore the benefits of monogamy and whether it's the secret to a more fulfilling partnership. From increased trust and intimacy to reduced conflict and jealousy, we examine the ways in which monogamy can bring couples closer together. Join us as we delve into the world of committed relationships and discover if monogamy is the answer to a happier, healthier love life. Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU 00:00:00 – Introduction and Purpose of the Discussion 00:01:07 – Statistical Overview of Relationship Longevity 00:03:49 – Biological Factors Influencing Relationship Preferences 00:08:27 – Challenges and Benefits of Different Relationship Structures 00:11:10 – Conclusion and Decision-Making Process ❣️ Website: mylibidodoc.com ❣️ Join the Libido Club: mylibidodoc.com/club. 🌹 Masterclasses on Libido Topics: mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 🌅 Freebies for all things libido: https://mylibidodoc.com/freebies/ 🎧 Podcast: https://mylibidodoc.com/podcasts/ 👯‍♀️ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ Are you ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and reclaim your libido? If you're seeking support and knowledge to enhance your sexual desire, we invite you to join us for the next empowering Libido Doc Masterclass. Designed specifically for women like you, this masterclass allows you to gain expert guidance and practical strategies for improving your libido. Don't miss out! Register now at mylibidodoc.com/masterclass and take a significant step towards revitalizing your sexual vitality and fulfillment.
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Unlock the secrets to deeper pleasure with Dr. Diane as she explores why some orgasms feel earth-shattering and others fall flat. From discovering the power of blended orgasms to understanding how your desires evolve over time, this episode is your guide to enhancing intimacy. Dr. Diane shares expert tips on communication, presence, and embracing change to achieve the most fulfilling pleasure possible. 👉 Ready to take your pleasure journey to the next level? Join our Libido Club! 💖 MyLibidoDoc.com/Libido-Club 💖 Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU ❣️ Website: mylibidodoc.com ❣️ Join the Libido Club: mylibidodoc.com/club 🌹 Masterclasses on Libido Topics: mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 🌅 Freebies for all things libido: https://mylibidodoc.com/freebies/ 🎧 Podcast: https://mylibidodoc.com/podcasts/ 👯‍♀️ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ Are you ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and reclaim your libido? If you're seeking support and knowledge to enhance your sexual desire, we invite you to join us for the next empowering Libido Doc Masterclass. Designed specifically for women like you, this masterclass allows you to gain expert guidance and practical strategies for improving your libido. Don't miss out! Register now at mylibidodoc.com/masterclass and take a significant step towards revitalizing your sexual vitality and fulfillment.
The Ultimate Guide to Better Orgasms: Blended Pleasure, Evolving Desires, and Communication Secrets
Are you always the one initiating sex? Does it feel like you're doing all the work? Or maybe you prefer to respond rather than initiate. Dr. Diane dives deep into the dynamics of sexual initiation and whether it’s a problem if one partner is always the initiator. Spoiler: It depends. She unpacks the science of connection, the emotional impact of rejection, and how communication is the ultimate game-changer. This episode is about dropping the shame, embracing what feels good, and building intimacy in a way that feels right for you. Tune in to find out how to keep things hot and healthy—no matter which role you prefer. Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU ❣️ Website: mylibidodoc.com ❣️ Join the Libido Club: mylibidodoc.com/club 🌹 Masterclasses on Libido Topics: mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 🌅 Freebies for all things libido: https://mylibidodoc.com/freebies/ 🎧 Podcast: https://mylibidodoc.com/podcasts/ 👯‍♀️ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ Are you ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and reclaim your libido? If you're seeking support and knowledge to enhance your sexual desire, we invite you to join us for the next empowering Libido Doc Masterclass. Designed specifically for women like you, this masterclass allows you to gain expert guidance and practical strategies for improving your libido. Don't miss out! Register now at mylibidodoc.com/masterclass and take a significant step towards revitalizing your sexual vitality and fulfillment.
Why WAITING For Him To Make The FIRST MOVE Is A BIG Mistake
Stuck in a rut and feeling like your sex life is on autopilot? Dr. Diane is here to help you break free from boring, repetitive bedroom routines and rediscover your passion. Learn simple but powerful hand job techniques that bring novelty, excitement, and pleasure back into your relationship. From mastering the right pressure to experimenting with new moves like the Corkscrew Twist and Two-Hand Grip, you’ll learn how to spark desire and boost intimacy. Plus, discover how edging techniques can lead to longer, more satisfying orgasms. Ready to feel confident, playful, and in control again? Let’s dive in! Join our Libido Club! MyLibidoDoc.com/Libido-Club ❣️ Website: mylibidodoc.com ❣️ Join the Libido Club: mylibidodoc.com/club 🌹 Masterclasses on Libido Topics: mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 🌅 Freebies for all things libido: https://mylibidodoc.com/freebies/ 🎧 Podcast: https://mylibidodoc.com/podcasts/ 👯‍♀️ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ Are you ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and reclaim your libido? If you're seeking support and knowledge to enhance your sexual desire, we invite you to join us for the next empowering Libido Doc Masterclass. Designed specifically for women like you, this masterclass allows you to gain expert guidance and practical strategies for improving your libido. Don't miss out! Register now at mylibidodoc.com/masterclass and take a significant step towards revitalizing your sexual vitality and fulfillment.
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