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Dr. Diane Mueller - Your LIbido Doc

Helping Couples Discover That Desire Can Deepen With Years Together

Hi, I’m Dr. Diane Mueller, and welcome to Your Libido Doc – a space where we explore one of the most intimate and often unspoken parts of life: your libido.

I’ve lived the full spectrum – from periods of intense desire to times where chronic illness made intimacy feel worlds away. I know what it’s like to feel disconnected from your sensuality and how confusing and isolating that can be. That’s why I’ve dedicated my life to helping women reclaim their passion, power, and pleasure.

My background combines:

  • A double doctorate – as a Naturopathic Doctor and Doctor of Acupuncture & Oriental Medicine
  • Deep study in tantric practice, sex coaching, and relationship therapy – Board Certified Sexologist
  • Years of personal healing, transformation, and reconnection to my own desires
  • 15+ Years Clinical Practice + Podcast Host + Best Selling Author

Whether it was pole dancing, medical literature, or facing hard truths about relationships — every step brought me closer to unlocking a holistic, empowered libido.

But this journey started long before I was a board-certified sexologist or held double doctorates. It started in my own relationships — where passion faded, communication broke down, and desire felt like a memory. I know what it’s like to love someone deeply... and still feel disconnected in bed. That’s why I do this work.

Monogamy Isn’t the Problem.

One Mission: Reignite Desire Together.

Modern life is full of stress, hormone imbalances, mismatched libidos, disconnection, and exhaustion. It’s no wonder so many couples stop having sex or start feeling like roommates.

What I’ve learned — through personal experience and clinical research, is that you don’t have to settle. Monogamy can be wildly passionate, emotionally safe, and sexually electric — when you have the right tools, support, and space to grow together.

Everything I teach is rooted in science-backed practices and real-life intimacy breakthroughs

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Unique Goals

Why I Do This Work

Because couples deserve more than “just okay” sex.
Because desire mismatches can be solved.
Because a healthy relationship is worth fighting for.

This is not about “fixing” anyone. It’s about helping couples understand the medical, emotional, and relational root causes of low libido, and giving them a step-by-step path to reignite what’s been lost.

You don’t need to wait for a breakdown to start this journey.
You just need to say yes to connection.

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Listen to Dr. Diane Mueller on these Podcasts:

Mastering Menopause Summit
Ask a Sex Therapist
Sexual Empowerment for Radiant Women Podcast
Hormone Healing
Wise Divine Women
Healthy Yoniversity
Confessions of a Loveaholic
She's Smart Podcast
Wise Divine Women
Nourishing You Podcast
Love Can't Wait Podcast
Art of Feminine Negotiation
The Femme Factor
Egg Meets Sperm Podcast
Sex Reimagined Podcast

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Menopause—it's a topic that's often approached with resignation and a shrug, but isn't it time we challenge the status quo? In the latest episode of Libido Sandbox 2, Dr. Diane Mueller dives deep into the hormonal shifts women face during menopause and offers a fresh perspective on tackling low libido. The common narrative suggests that declining hormones are an inevitable part of aging. But what if we could use this knowledge to our advantage? Dr. Mueller argues that testosterone, often overlooked, could be a game-changer for many women. It's not just about accepting a gradual decline—it's about understanding that our adrenal glands continue to produce hormones, albeit at lower levels, and strategically harnessing this for our well-being. It's time to rethink the narrative around menopause and libido. Are we really doing enough to empower women during this transition? Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Ready for a Hot and More Modern Version of Monogamy? Join the Club: 🌹 https://mylibidodoc.com/club ❣️ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com ❣️ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/club 🌅 Freebies for all things libido: https://mylibidodoc.com/freebies/ 🎧 Podcast: https://mylibidodoc.com/podcasts/
How should we really approach low libido at menopause?
In a world obsessed with quick fixes and surface-level solutions, we often overlook the deeper work necessary for true healing, especially when it comes to sexual well-being. On the latest episode of Libido Lounge, we dive into the concept of 'dearmoring' with Courtney Davis. For those unfamiliar, dearmoring isn't just another wellness buzzword. It's a profound practice that addresses the way our tissues hold onto unprocessed emotions, memories, and even trauma, particularly in our erogenous zones. While mainstream discussions focus on the physical aspects of sexual health, dearmoring challenges us to consider the emotional armor we might be carrying. This method isn't about instant gratification; it's about peeling back layers of protection our bodies have built up over time. As Courtney explains, dearmoring involves deep massage and exploration of the pelvic structure, offering a path to release and relief that many aren't aware of. It's a practice that can redefine how we approach intimacy and connection in long-term relationships. Isn't it time we started talking about the emotional underpinnings of our physical experiences?
What does dearmoring really mean for sexual health?
In a world where infidelity often spells the end of a relationship, Britton and Carolee Beckham are challenging the status quo. Their journey, shared on Libido Lounge, is a testament to the power of radical honesty and redefining love. Carolee opens up about the internal struggle of navigating an open relationship—a decision she initially resisted due to deep-seated beliefs and fears. It's a narrative that flips the script on traditional relationship norms, urging us to question whether the discomfort of confronting our fears is the very path to clarity and personal growth. The Beckhams didn't just patch up their relationship; they transformed it. By engaging in a LifeBook program, they evaluated every aspect of their lives—from parenting to spirituality to love. This introspection, coupled with a bold move to Bali, catalyzed a deeper connection. The episode is a call to action for any couple dealing with betrayal: What if the path to healing isn't about forgiveness alone, but about embracing uncomfortable truths and daring to redefine love on your own terms?
Is radical honesty the key to healing after infidelity?
Have you ever considered that the pelvic floor issues plaguing countless individuals might not be medical problems at all? This notion was a revelation for both Dr. Diane Mueller and Jana Danielson, and it just might be a game-changer for you too. According to research from Dr. Bruce Crawford, a staggering 90% of pelvic floor dysfunction is not medical but fitness-related. This means that the solution might not lie in a doctor's office but in the way you move your body every day. Jana, a seasoned Pilates instructor, had her 'Jerry Maguire' moment when she realized that improving posture and breathing could significantly aid pelvic health. But she didn't stop there. She innovatively adapted tools from her own home – mini basketballs and floor hockey balls – to develop a method that addresses these issues right at the source, without the immediate need for pelvic floor physical therapy. This approach challenges traditional medical perspectives and empowers individuals to take charge of their health in a completely new way. It's about redefining the narrative around pelvic health and shifting the focus from treatment to proactive fitness.
Are we overlooking the real cause of pelvic floor dysfunction?
In a world that glorifies holding onto traditional notions of love and commitment, Britton and Carolee Beckham did the unthinkable: they burned it all down. Not their relationship, but the preconceived ideals of what a relationship was supposed to be. And guess what? It worked. Carolee talks about letting go of the dreams and expectations she held since childhood. She realized she was clinging to a relationship blueprint that wasn't hers, but one she was told she should follow. So she and Britton torched those outdated dreams to make room for something real—something uniquely theirs. Sounds radical, right? But their journey of radical honesty and redefining love led to a place of clarity and strength by 2023. In their words, it was like a 'catapult of soaring,' a refreshing take on what a relationship can evolve into when freed from societal constraints. Are we too attached to what love 'should' look like, rather than what it could be if we define it ourselves?
Can 'burning it all down' save your relationship?
In the world of long-term relationships, compromise is often touted as the holy grail of harmony. But what if this well-worn advice is actually holding you back? Carolee Beckham, alongside her partner Britton, discovered that compromise wasn't the solution—it was the problem. While living in Bali, they embarked on a transformative journey, shedding the narrative that for one to win, the other must lose. Instead, they pursued a 'full yes' for both partners—a radical idea that challenges the status quo. Through a soul-searching program called LifeBook, they dissected every facet of their lives, including their love relationship. By defining their individual and shared ideals, they found a path where their desires aligned without sacrifice. This isn't just about relationships; it's about questioning the compromises we make in every aspect of life. Are you settling for less under the guise of compromise?
Is compromise killing your relationship?
Struggling with pelvic pain that’s affecting your intimacy? You’re not alone, and the good news is, there are practical steps you can take to find relief while deepening your connection with your partner. In this video, we share what to do (and what not to do) if you want better intimacy and less pelvic pain. You’ll learn how certain habits, positions, and approaches can either ease or aggravate discomfort, plus what helps create safety and relaxation in your body. Whether you’re dealing with pain during sex, tension from stress, or physical challenges that impact closeness, this video will give you tools and insights to reclaim pleasure, reduce pain, and strengthen your bond with your partner. About the Guest: Jana Danielson, an award-winning wellness entrepreneur, transformed her personal struggle with physical pain into a mission to elevate women through self-love and empowerment. As Founder & CEO of Bloom Better, she helps women discover their sacred selves by integrating physical wellness with mental and emotional health, focusing on mastering mindset, movement, and metabolism.??A Pilates Master Instructor, Certified Pilates Instructor, Certified Weight Loss Specialist and Amazon International Best Selling Author. Jana created the metabolic movement system called Terrain Fitness. She is the mastermind behind the Cooch Ball, the world's first pelvic floor fitness tool for women. She is also a pioneer in the mindset space thanks to the launch of her Emotional Intelligence AI app called Orchid.??Jana continues to inspire and guide women towards enhanced quality of life, confidence, and impact. Her work proves that when women invest in their health, they invest in their power to change the world. Healthy Pelvic Floor eBook: https://info.bloombetter.life/healthy-pelvic-floor-ebook585347 Get the Couch Ball Here: https://bloombetter.life/products/cooch-ball?bg_ref=p0Q1z9N3BJ Get the Couch ball plus the full intimacy bundle here: https://bloombetter.life/pages/the-intimacy-bundle?bg_ref=p0Q1z9N3BJ Timestamps/Chapters: 0:00 Introduction to pelvic floor health with Janet Danielson 1:17 Sponsor: wanttowantit.com 2:02 Welcome to the episode and overview 3:01 The connection between pelvic floor health, sensuality, and confidence 5:39 Debunking pelvic floor and core misconceptions 7:09 Distinguishing normal and common pelvic floor issues 9:00 Identifying symptoms of pelvic floor dysfunction 10:18 Personal journeys in pelvic floor relaxation 11:02 The role of blood flow in muscle function and health 14:35 Pros and cons of Kegels and muscle training 16:33 The impact of media on pelvic floor perceptions 19:28 Introduction to the cooch ball technology 23:45 Addressing various pelvic floor conditions with the cooch ball 24:12 Enhancing arousal and orgasm through nervous system and muscle control 26:03 Sponsor: Wanttowantit.com promotion 26:52 Summary of pelvic floor health and introducing the scooch ball 27:27 The significance of breathing techniques for pelvic wellness 29:42 Conclusion of part one and transition to discussion with Jana Danielson 32:19 The journey of long-term pelvic floor exercise commitment 35:11 Exploring the emotional and physical impacts of pelvic floor exercises 38:11 Instruction on using the cooch ball and breath work 42:44 The role of posture in pelvic floor health and additional exercises 48:22 Further discussion on posture and exercise benefits for the pelvic floor 49:22 Emphasizing the importance of non-weighted pelvic floor exercises 50:32 Advocating for quality-focused pelvic floor workouts 50:57 Resources for the cooch ball and scooch ball 51:19 Celebrating bodily autonomy and the pursuit of pleasure 52:09 Closing remarks and resources from Libido Lounge and Dr. Diane Mueller To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Ready for a Hot and More Modern Version of Monogamy? Join the Club: 🌹 https://mylibidodoc.com/club ❣️ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com ❣️ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/club 🌅 Freebies for all things libido: https://mylibidodoc.com/freebies/ 🎧 Podcast: https://mylibidodoc.com/podcasts/
Pelvic Pain Stealing Pleasure and Intimacy? Here’s How to Take It Back with Jana Danielson
When trust is shattered in relationships, is it even possible to rebuild? Conventional wisdom might say "move on," but what if staying and healing is the real power move? In our latest episode of Libido Lounge, we dive deep into this very question with Dr. Bruce Chalmer. He suggests that rebuilding trust isn't just about forgiving and forgetting—it's about understanding the roots of betrayal and learning from it. It's not a simple reset but a complete transformation. Dr. Chalmer challenges the notion that the betrayed partner should be the only one seeking reassurance. In fact, the person who strayed may also need to trust their partner won't hold them in a perpetual state of guilt. It's about mutual growth and understanding to move past the "permanent villain" narrative. This approach isn't for everyone, but for those willing to face the discomfort, it might just be the key to a more profound connection. It's a bold stance that questions the easy route of "once a cheater, always a cheater" and instead opts for a narrative of growth and understanding.
Can couples truly heal from betrayal?
Can cannabis enhance your sexual health? We all know the usual suspects when it comes to improving sexual health: exercise, diet, mindfulness. But what about cannabis? Dr. Mueller shares some eye-opening insights on how cannabis might actually enhance sexual experiences for women. She highlights that cannabis can help women reach orgasm more easily and improve the quality of the orgasm itself. But, and this is a big but, the quality of the cannabis matters. Organic cannabis and CO2-extracted edibles are the way to go, avoiding the nasty pesticides and butane residues that plague the market. The real kicker? Cannabis helps women get out of their heads and into their bodies, allowing them to focus on pleasure without the usual mental clutter. It's a fresh perspective that challenges traditional views on sexual health enhancement. Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Ready for a Hot and More Modern Version of Monogamy? Join the Club: 🌹 https://mylibidodoc.com/club ❣️ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com ❣️ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/club 🌅 Freebies for all things libido: https://mylibidodoc.com/freebies/ 🎧 Podcast: https://mylibidodoc.com/podcasts/
Can cannabis enhance your sexual health?
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